Thing I want to do less

Judging others

Maybe because I'm now very well aware of my goal, it's troubling me even more. It's challenging to stop thinking negatively about other people, when it's positively reinforced by other people (i.e. friends). I've pretty much come to the realization that it does not improve my life or add to anyone elses life when I judge other people. Their business is theirs, and my business is mine. I know for sure, I don't want other people worrying about what I'm doing and why, negatively that is.

If I think about conversations I have with certain people in my life, if they stopped negatively talking about people, and I stopped supporting it and participating in it, how much would there be to say? I'm all for only talking when you have something to say, that is purposeful, and judging other people isn't purposeful, meaning you're just spitting out a bunch of BS.

I feel so much more fulfilled with a person if we can have a good time talking about legit stuff. Right now I have so much introspection going on, that I think it's just nearly impossible for me to be content with anyone or anything going on right now. In time it will pass, I'll have made the changes I've wanted, and began to settle in.